Make time for your kids

During the holiday season I always ask the kids I work with what thier family traditions are, who does the cooking, what is cooked, who attends etc. and the answers are getting sadder and sadder each year. I am absolutely amazed at the amount of kids who have very little to say in this regard. The common theme is a lack of tradition, a lack of time, a lack of effort, a lack of togetherness. I am not saying that this applies to all but I hear about it enough to be concerned. If you do fall into this category and you know who you are you can do something about it and don't think for a minute that is doesn't matter to your kids. No matter how negative the attitude they display or nonchalant the words they use - they care. If you have not created a tradition then begin one now, it is never too late. If you don't have the time - make the time. If you don't know how to cook - learn. Get your kids involved in planning and cooking and enjoying holiday meals together. Invite family, friends and neighbors. This shows your kids that you care about such things and that makes them feel cared for and loved.